I think you can only do that if it is a vowel or silent start to the verb (e.g. J' habite- pronounced JABEET). 'Je suis' has two parts to it where the silent starting verbs can merge into each other, hence the dropped 'e'.
No, "une femme, un homme" is "eine Frau, ein Mann" and "A woman, a man"
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