Along this line...what do you think is or should be correct for the new "they/them" pronoun useage for the singular? Since it is replacing what would normally be he/him or she/her, shouldn't it then be correct to say, for instance, "they gives" to identify it as singular? This is something that has yet to be identified in English grammar, as it is so new. When one is writing a report with both "they" as singular and "they" as plural, it can be terribly confusing! Especially when in the same SENTENCE. (To both read and write) This has been happening to me frequently at work, as we have a client who identifies as "they/them."