I notice that these two describing words both end with -tori, is this used like the -ly in English?
"-tori" is a common ending for adjectives in their masculine, plural form. However, it doesn't always work:
"a fermeca" - "fermecători"
"a captiva" - "captivanți"
Atragator sau atractiv e acelasi lucru. De ce nu primeste atractiv?
If "we" referred to only women or girls, would the adjectives take the feminine plural form?
yes they would
Yes, it would. Suntem fermecătoare şi atrăgătoare.