What no and yes actually means in Korean

One thing Americans say that Koreans do differently is the word yes or in Korean (ne) and no or in Korean (ani or aniyo) the way Koreans say it does not mean no and yes. Yes means yes, I agree with what you are saying. It can also mean I am listening and no in Korean means no I do not agree with what you are saying, for example, So you didn’t eat bulgogi yesterday. The person would respond yes or I agree with what you're saying if she did not eat bulgogi yesterday.

November 29, 2017


Good observation, and something to keep in mind when speaking English with a Korean to avoid misunderstndings.

"You don't think I look fat?"

"Yes" is the natural response for a polite Korean.

"Don't you want to be with me?"

"No." signifies a desire to continue the relationship.

It's best to clarify with a follow-up line right away.

November 29, 2017

The same observation applies to Japanese and Chinese

November 29, 2017

Think contrary to your thoughts.

November 30, 2017

This isn't really a peculiarity of Korean but rather a peculiarity of English that doesn't exist in Korean. English speakers often say the opposite of what they mean. Koreans don't.

December 2, 2017

This rule does apply to English on occasion. At least, it does where I'm from. For instance, my mother might ask something like, "you didn't want coffee?" and in response I'd say yes or no depending on whether she was right and I agreed or she was wrong and I disagreed.

November 29, 2017
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