"Kumkalia mtu kitako"

Translation: To talk about someone

[vitoreiji]

What does this mean literally?

[machieng]

:D well, 'tako' is a butt cheek, 'kitako' is a small butt cheek. 'Kalia' is to sit on. Do with that as you will

[the3lusive]

To sit on someone's lap.

[Nsikan9]

Sorry, I fail to see the connection. How is that (the literal translation) related to talking about someone?