"यह नेहा का बेटा है।"

Translation: This is Neha's son.

[LobsangC]

So, when we want to decide which possessive post particle to use, we take on the gender of the object of possession, not the possessor, yes?

[da864606]

Correct

[ph.tEGKZt]

touse/wetakeonthegeneder