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"Hij is bij haar."

Translation:He is with her.

July 22, 2014



Is there a difference between "Hij is bij haar" and "Hij is met haar"?


I think (being a non-native speaker) that 'met haar' denotes more the physical proximity where as 'bij haar' means more like 'at her place', so not necessarily right beside her. Just a guess :).


'bij' both denotes physical proximity (he is close to her, sitting next to her) as well as 'at her place'. 'Hij is met haar' feels more as an active process; 'hij is met haar naar de film' -> he is with her to the movies. 'met haar' can also be used as 'in a relationship with her' or 'going out with her', something that you can't say with 'bij haar'.


Okay so, 'bij' is used when, for example I'm with someone right now and he/she is next to me at this very moment, while 'met' is used when if for example I want to say I'm going to the movies with him/her later, or I'm not with that person to the place I am now but that person will be with me soon?

Am I understanding it right? If not, please correct me, thank you.


Thanks, I translated by "he is at her place" but it was not accepted while I was pretty sure of my translation


"He is at her place" was accepted.


I know.. still is :)


Could ¨bij¨ also translate to ¨by¨ as in, ¨He is by her¨?


I don't undersand. In one sentence with Bij only 'by' was accepted and here it's 'with'. I'm so confused. Really confusing section.


this word "bij" has several translations into English, in one case "by" was the only way of normal translation into English, just like now, the most normal meaning of this preposition in this clause is with. Of course, "by her" translated to one's native language may make sense but not vice versa


Yes! It is indeed =/


The story of my life: Zij is bij hem.


I translated it as "he is at hers" - thinking "bij haar" meant the same as "chez elle" in French. Is that incorrect?


'bij haar' is often used as 'at her home', as an abbreviation for 'bij haar thuis'. Next to this 'bij haar' can also just mean 'in her physical proximity'; whether at her home or not.


Can someone explain the difference of using bij and met? And when is it appropriate to use?


Did we get bij in a previous lesson? Because this was an audible quetion and i hadnt seen bij before it.


I thought we learned that 'bij' was 'near' . But no, we learned the word: 'bijna' . 'Bijna' = nearly/almost NOT NEAR I think it is so? Therefore, the word required here is 'with' or might "bij" be used also?


"Bij "does not mean" with" according to Word reference.com, they say that it means near, close,by, at...? Is "bij" similar to the German word " bei " ?


"He is by her" should work as well I think.


Another phrase that the speech recognition fails to detect!


could this mean he is with hair?

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