Actually, I read this and thought "story of my life".
As in "the hero gets the girl at the end of the movie",
I then got it wrong because I typed "I get the girl and the men" (self-correcting from "...and the guys", but neglecting to shift to the "woman" instead of the "girl" by which I actually meant the colloquial English for "woman" in these kinds of contexts.
That's what a slender r sounds like. Normally there'll be another word immediately after it, so you don't notice. For example, you probably don't notice it in this exercise with aimsir, but you can hear it when it's at the end of the sentence.