Isn't "Haven't you ever talked to my sister?" also right?

Haven't you ever spoken with my sister? should be accepted as well.

why is "you have not ever spoken with my sister" incorrect?

Surprised by the fact the DL still has not accepted "Haven't you ever spoken with my sister?" even after five years--as the other posts in this discussion suggest. Come on DL! Help us here.

Should definitely be "Haven't you ever spoken with my sister?" or "You have never spoken with my sister?"