Words for relatives
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Swedish learner nunes89 asked for a table with all the relative terms in this discussion.
I made a short list as comment but thought I’d compile a ”släktträd” (family tree) which is available as a .pdf here.
Edit (2016-06-02): The original file has disappeared, so I have replaced it with smaller one, so you might have to zoom a bit.
Blue is male relatives, pink is female relatives and green are gender-neutral. The white ones are don’t have specific words, but are included to complete the tree.
Observe that the words for relatives are very flexible and in a dictionary you’ll also find e.g. ”morfarsfar” (father of your maternal grandfather) and ”sonsonson” (son of your son’s son) etc., but it’s hard to squeeze all the words in.
Most of the words are included in this table I made.
I apologise for the heteronormative gender-stereotypical tree, but it’s just to make it clear and illustrative.
Good luck!
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Can you just keep bunging them on? Eg, morfarsfarsmorsfarsmorsmor, or farmorsfarsfarsmorsmorsfar?
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Yes, but separated and only with an s every second time :):
morfars farmors farmors mor and farmors farfars mormors far.
You can listen to "Släkthuset" by Povel Ramel here.
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Ah, cheers. :) Do you know the reason for the separation (considering barnbarnsbarn), or is it just that it's how it's done? :0
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I guess it's because it makes more sense to say my grandchild's child rather than my child's grandchild. It also moves the point of stress in the word, it's slightly uncomfortable for me to say "barnsbarnbarn".
To add to your comment, usually if you have a compound word with three components (2+1), the -s will be after the first two components: fotboll+s+plan (with an -s-), but folk+tandvård (1+2, without an -s-).
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... with the famous exception "Svenska Fotbollförbundet" where you have to really concentrate not to say fotbollsförbundet :).
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I meant more why is it mormors farmors far and not mormorsfarmorsfar, since there's a single word for my grandchild's child (barnbarnsbarn) instead of two (ie, barnbarns barn). :)
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It seems to work with a single word also for mormorsmor etc as long as it is a combo of three only :).
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Maybe we should say something about modern-day relatives. If your partner has children from a previous relationship, you can say that these kids are your bonusbarn. There are also words like plastpappa/plastmamma for your parents' new partners. If your parents have split up and now live with new people, the children of these people can be your plastsyskon (plastsyster, plastbror, or with the colloquial forms syrra/brorsa instead, plastsyrra, plastbrorsa), or you can use the forms with bonus- (bonussyskon etc).
The prefix plast of course means plastic and refers to this as a modern phenomenon + that it is not "organic".
The traditional word for this kind of relation is styv- (like the English step-): styvmor, styvfar, styvföräldrar, styvbarn, styvdotter, styvson, styvsyskon, styvsyster, styvbror etc. However, maybe because of all the evil stepmothers in the fairytales, or maybe because there's an implication of permanency in these words that does not suit the situation today, these words aren't very popular any longer. But, some people may feel that plast doesn't sound serious enough, so bonus- is probably the safest bet. (In Sweden, that is, I believe that the combinations with styv- are the preferred ones in Finland.)
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I like the idea of adding "bonus" at the beginning of the words! Sounds like gifts or prizes! :D
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but if i consider more confortable to me using the styv-word, can i use it anyways??
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People would understand you, but it doesn't sound nice to my ears. As Arnauti said, because of Disney, I think that a styvmor or styvfar is something bad.
I suggest using bonus-, it's easy to understand and has a bit more of a playful feel to it.
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sadly the pdf doesn't work anymore, but thanks for the explanation and the table!
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Can´t find the pdf tree, even the replaced one. i made a comment on that yesterday, but my comment did see the light of existance :/
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Nice work! By the way, these "männing" thing is mostly used in northern Sweden, right? Do you know if it possible to say "tvåmänning" instead of cousin? I never use them myself, so I don't have a clue.
I think they are just alternative terms, but it seems as if they're mostly used in Northern Sweden according to Wikipedia. They also list "tvåmänning" which is also in SAOB. I've definitely heard/seen tremänning/fyrmänning, probably mostly in writing or from older people. I say "syssling" myself, but many people around me here in southern Sweden and my mother use "nästkusin".
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Interesting! Apparently, "tvåmänning" can also be a plant or a Gotland boat :).
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My girlfriend is from a village in Dalarna where they use två-/tre-/...männing.
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Ja! Useful for the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday :) Tack så mycket
(I love the fact that great-grandchild is "barnbarnsbarn". Literally child child's child. Wonderfully simplistic.)
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Guys, please, help) In English, for example, we have a word "grandma" for Swedish "mormor" and "farmor". Imagine the situation, when someone asks: "Är det hennes mormor?" In English it would be just: "Is it her grandma?" And the answer would be, e.g., "Yes". But what would it be in Swedish? I hope that I am not mistaken if I think that it's not obligatory to know is this particular Swedish grandma father's mother or mother's mother)) What should I answer if I don't know such details? Or should I say smth like: "Mormor eller farmor"?)
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It depends on the situation. It's not really as complicated as it sounds. If it's not your "mormor" but instead your "farmor" you simply say that. If you're the person asking the question you simply choose one to ask and expect the other person to tell you if it's the wrong one.
You don't have to make it complicated! Edge cases like yours rarely happen and are easily solved by saying a few extra words.
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We usually call her moster anyway. Or if we want to be clear, morbrors fru.
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For me it depends. If they were already married when I was a kid and she's still around, I tend to speak about her as my moster (though if I speak more about her, I'll probably mention that she's my uncle's wife). But if my uncle gets married later on, she'll only ever be min morbrors fru.
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Don't apologize for "heteronormativity," straight relationships are more common than gay ones so it makes sense that you would use it as an example!
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Hey, i can´t find the family tree pdf. Its been three years :/ but is there a re-upload somewhere! it would help a lot. tack så mycket!
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This link contains generations from SYSKON to TRASSLING and another from FAR to FRÄNKA
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If they exist in Swedish, could I trouble you to include terms for half-siblings? Would it be halvbror and the like?
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What do you call uncles and aunts by marriage? For example, your father's brother's wife?
You can also call them farbror/morbror/faster/moster or say ingift before if you want to specify: min ingifta moster e.g.
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Cheers. Does "gammel" actually mean something in and of itself, then?
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I guess it is just an old form of "gammal". Old is called "gammel" in Danish and in Norwegian.
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Tack så mycket! Amazing work!
Quick question: the declensions column... The first term is used for the definitive form (familjen - the family) while the second one is used for indef plural (familjer - families and, if I am not wrong, familjerna - the families).
My question: why do the declensions with "barn are -0 and -en? I thought the definitive singular was -et (barmet - the child) and the plurals barn -children, barnen- the children. Am I wrong? Thank you :)
Well spotted. It’s a mistake, it should say barn, -et -0 just like syskon.
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Tack så mycket for this, It is really helpful, and - in some cases, quite logical!
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what about the relatives that are not colored? Are they gender-neutral too?
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Blue is male relatives, pink is female relatives and green are gender-neutral. The white ones are don’t have specific words, but are included to complete the tree.
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What is the word for an aunt or uncle by marriage? For instance my Uncle Mike is Morbror Mike, because he is my mother's brother. But what would his wife, my Aunt Mary Beth be called? Is there a word for that?
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I gave the lingots for "I apologise for the heteronormative gender-stereotypical tree, but it’s just to make it clear and illustrative."
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Your PDF is exactly what I needed. I was starting to get confused about the different words for family members, but now it all make sense. Will I be able to memorise it all, this is another kettle of fish. Thanks very much for your effort on this. Tack så mycket!
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Tacks sa myket! (Sorry can't make the little mark over the a in sa.) This is brilliant! so helpful!
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Tack så mycket, Lundgren. Som jag är interessad (oops - intresserad) av släktforskning, det här är jätte useful (användbar). Det saknas bara ett ord för mig: bryllingar (third cousins).
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Hi, thanks for this!
Wife is "fru" and husband is "man", right? Is there a gender-neutral term for spouse/partner?
Also, a gender-neutral term for sibling-in-law (svåger/ska)?
Usually the word for spouse is make for a man and maka for a woman. We use the gender-neutral word partner (-n, -0/-s) for partner in general, but I can’t think of a gender-neutral word for spouse. There is also sambo if you live together in a relationship without being married.
I’m afraid we don’t have a neat gender-neutral word like sibling-in-law. One could imagine svärsyskon but it’s not used.
