I love how spot on these comment sections are. Always got my questions covered.
Can this context get you slapped in sweden?....
Use leka instead if you want to have a chance of getting slapped. spela is for musical instruments and games with rules, leka is for free play.
Presumably not, if used in a noncreepy way.
Spelar was suggested, but km assuming it's not right because of the r?
"Vill du med mig spela." is not an option, is it?
non-native, but living in Sweden for ten years here. It does not sound right/normal to me.
"Skulle du vilja leka med mig?' Inte godkände, men varför inte då?