How do you tell the difference between et words and en words?
It is simply a matter of memorization. A rule of thumb is that animate objects use "en" and inanimate use "et", but that isn't always the case. I have read that Danes will be able to tell a native speaker from their proper use of en and et
Why can't you use "tomaten"?
En tomat = A tomato Tomaten = The tomato