Him and my father is the same thing.
Exactly what I said, and got it wrong. Oh well...
"He and my father...."
That is correct....though I think I would tend to say "My father and him...."
"My father and him" is incorrect. It is like saying "I and him" instead of "He and I."
Yeah, I've always been taught "My father and him..." is technically grammatically incorrect, but me and everyone I know use it all the time. I just used it there ;)
How would you say
It is my father and his brothers?