Him and my father is the same thing.
Exactly what I said, and got it wrong. Oh well...
"He and my father...."
That is correct....though I think I would tend to say "My father and him...."
Yeah, I've always been taught "My father and him..." is technically grammatically incorrect, but me and everyone I know use it all the time. I just used it there ;)
"My father and him" is incorrect. It is like saying "I and him" instead of "He and I."
No it's not, it is both:
What is the difference between pai and papai?
Pai means father (formal) and papai, which is more informal, means something more like dad, daddy or papa.