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"Quiero a mis hijos igualmente."

Translation:I love my children equally.

December 28, 2012


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What if you wanted your cat. "I want my cat" = "Quiero mi gato", If you love your cat, is it the same?

December 29, 2012


Welcome to the vagueries of language. I drive on a parkway and I park on a driveway.

December 29, 2012


your example is good, but those are just names for things that seem odd and backwards. This example is talking about the concept of love and using the words "want to" to express it. I find it confusing to say the least.

November 30, 2013


From what I understand "like" is a better translation for querer. So, quiero would mean "I like/I'd like." Quiero pasta = I like/I'd like pasta. Quiero mis hijos = I like my kids...

Quierdo/Quierda is also used as a pet name for children and SOs, kind of like sweetie or darling. I've reported the whole querer /= want thing to the staff before (because seeing a parent use it for a child and thinking it meant "the one that I want" can cause big problems) but I don't think they've done anything about it yet.

May 30, 2014


Generally speaking "querer" means "to want". For people/pets it can also mean "love" (as well as "want").

I can see the confusion though, because we ask for something politely by saying "I'd like Xxx". What we really mean is that we want it. In Spanish a common polite way to ask for something is to use "quisiera" which is the imperfect subjunctive of "querer".

All this means is that "Quisiera la pasta" would be translated as "I'd like the pasta". It does not mean that "querer" means "to like".

To say "I like pasta" would be "Me gusta la pasta".

May 31, 2014


It's not so much that querer means exactly the same thing as "like" (I know it doesn't) as that it's used in a similar way... I've seen some funny reactions to that word from some people who only partially learned Spanish, and living in a border state that kind of confusion be a bit of a problem. Especially when a parent is using it for their kid and the person hearing it is a teacher, who is legally required to report certain things, y'know? -Problems.-

Maybe a little pop up window explaining the different uses for querer when it is first introduced would work? I can't imagine that everyone trying to learn Spanish on Duolingo makes it to this point...

But, yeah, linguistically, I agree with you. I'm just worried about the confusion factor and real life-type stuff.

May 31, 2014


All I know is that in Puebla MX "yo la quiero mucho a ella" means i want her sexually. Take care.

July 5, 2018


It's all about context.

December 30, 2012


She's right. Quiero means both I Love and I Want, depending on the context. It's very simple really.

May 29, 2014


Yup... all about context and we have NONE. Half of this course is guessing what duolingo is looking for. Extremely frustrating sometimes.

September 22, 2014


I'm not fluent in spanish, but I think if you were in love with your cat, you would say "quiero a mi gato" - note the "a"

March 3, 2013


The personal "a" would be used when referring to a pet (i.e an animal to which one has affection), regardless of whether you mean "want" or "love". It's all to do with context.


My cat does something cute, and I say to my friend "Quiero a mi gato" (I love my cat).

My crazy neighbour steals my cat, and I go to retrieve her. I bang on the door and say "Quiero a mi gato" (I want my cat).

May 25, 2014


I too was a little confused with this. So suppose you are sitting on your couch and are not able to get up at the moment or not feelling well and your cat does somthing cute and now you want your cat to comfort you, so you say to your friend Quiro a mi gato (expecting your friend to get him for you). Are you saying i love my cat or i want my cat?

June 11, 2014


It would depend how you said it. Most people could pick up on the tone which you meant, but in reality if you wanted your friend to get your cat for you, you would probably say "Quisiera a mi gato".

June 11, 2014


Makes sense. Personally i dont see an issue with one saying i want my children. Because the the fact is everyone should want their children. For one to take that out of context just aint right. I want my children because i love my children.

In short my question is the personal a is valid with want or love in this sense becuase it personalizes the object, correct?

June 11, 2014


Disculpe, correcto.. quiero

June 11, 2014


Sorry xtempore, this comment is wrong.

June 1, 2014


From http://spanish.about.com/cs/grammar/a/personal_a.htm...

Pets: Many pet owners think of their animals as people, and so does Spanish grammar, so the personal a is used. But the a isn't used with ordinary animals. Veo a mi perro, Ruff, I see my dog, Ruff. Veo tres elefantes, I see three elephants.

June 1, 2014


This helped a lot, gracias

April 29, 2014


Nope, you have a mistake in your phrase that makes the difference and it all hinges on how Spanish directs' actions when the object of the action is a personality.

Quiero mi gato = "I want my cat".

Quiero a mi gato= "I love my cat". The addition of the "personal a" directs the action of desire to the (particular identity) cat. This "personal a" thing is very important, and is probably the most difficult thing for a non-native speaker to learn.

Also, context matters a lot.

May 12, 2014


I checked this with my Spanish teacher. You would always use the "a" when referring to your own cat. So in both cases it is "quiero a mi gato" and it will mean either "love" or "want" depending on the context.

May 31, 2014


I checked with my native Spanish-speaking family and friends, and google, and books, and movies, and dictionaries, and Shakira and they all tell me your Spanish teacher is mistaken in that example. (please see: http://www.tr3s.com/shows/quiero-mi-baby-season-1/ )

What the teacher may have been thinking of is when you want the cat in a particular condition; Yo quiero a mi gato vivo, where the a is pointing to the state of the cat, that you want it alive, not that you love your cat alive.

Also, that guideline that "you would always use the "a" when referring to your own cat", isn't exactly correct either because it depends upon how attached you are to your cat. Many people don't use the "a" when talking about their pets. Others use it when they are talking about their cars. So again, context.

May 31, 2014


This made me laugh out loud, thanks

March 27, 2015


The "a" does not change it from "want" to "love". With the "a" it can mean either (depending on context), without the "a" it pretty much only means "want". Yes, there are exceptions. If the animal is not considered a pet (i.e. there is no personal attachment) then the "a" is not needed, but most of the time when people say "my cat" they are referring to a pet. If the cat is just an animal that they own, for experimentation purposes for example, then they may choose to disassociate from it and not use the personal "a".

EDIT: My teacher is a native Spanish speaker, she is a qualified teacher, and she is a certified Spanish as a second language teacher. So, yeah, I trust her a little more than you.

I have no idea what your link even is supposed to relate to. The Spanglish title of a TV show?

And the Shakira reference? What is the purpose of that? Her song "quiero" has nothing to do with the personal "a".

I simplified my statement to make it clear that pets generally use the personal "a" (this is a useful generalisation because, by definition, a "pet" is "any domesticated or tamed animal that is kept as a companion and cared for affectionately").

You said ""Quiero mi gato = I want my cat; Quiero a mi gato = I love my cat" -- THIS IS WRONG, and gives the impression that the "a" changes "querer" from want to love. It does not. The "a" is ALWAYS used whenever referring to a person or an animal for which one feels affection - I.E. a pet. "Quiero a mi gato" MIGHT mean "I love my cat" OR "I want my cat".

Some people might say "Quiero mi gato", but by dropping the personal "a" they are indicating that they do not feel affectionate towards the cat.

http://www.studyspanish.com/lessons/persa.htm ...

The personal "a" may also be used if the direct object is a domesticated animal, especially a pet, provided that the speaker attaches some sort of personal feelings towards the animal."

http://spanish.about.com/cs/grammar/a/personal_a.htm ...

Pets: Many pet owners think of their animals as people, and so does Spanish grammar, so the personal a is used. But the a isn't used with ordinary animals. Veo a mi perro, Ruff, I see my dog, Ruff. Veo tres elefantes, I see three elephants.

June 1, 2014


I am sorry, I think you read that last paragraph and missed my point entirely thinking that had to do with the main argument and not just me pointing out that your teacher is wrong when they claim that one would always use the a personal to talk about your cat. Many people don't.

So back to the main thread here; I was never claiming that the addition of the a made a change of meaning. What I said was that the correct construction of a sentence expressing love for a personality using querer would include the a personal to indicate the object of affection, while a statement of wanting the same for some reason would not include the a personal. That is about as uncontroversial a statement imaginable, one made in a couple of the comments in this thread, and one supported by my experience, my family members, reading, television, and the link I sent you, but a statement of fact that you keep arguing against without evidence to the contrary.

So, may I suggest that, partly because you feel so strongly about this, and partly because I am very interested in knowing if I have this wrong, that you just find an example that proves otherwise and we can discuss that instead of further cluttering this discussion forum with back and forth.

Please feel free to contact me on my personal page if you do find an example. I promise you that I would be very interested in seeing what you find.

Before you do so though, please reread what I wrote above, because I suspect that you think that I am making arguments that I am not.

Hasta luego

June 1, 2014


You may want a cat if you are ging to buy it, if ?quiero' refers lo feelings then is love, wirh out context you can't kwon the exact meaning. ot quiero.

December 29, 2012


I don't really understand this either, but I think it has something to do with definite and indefinite articles (e.g. quiero a vs quiero, lo vs le(?)) but I haven't done that yet, so if I remember, I'll comment again ;)

January 18, 2014


I think this discussion is addressing various topics.

In general, querer is "to want" when it's used for things and "to love" when it's used for people and pets. I was taught that querer can be translated as "to wish" or "to want" or "to love"; how you translate depends on context. (And, yes, there are other words in Spanish that can be used for these meanings.)

Second, there is the use of what is often called the "personal a", which is not about the verb, but when something animate (human, animal) is the direct object of the verb:



January 18, 2014


That's disgusting, and I'm pretty sure it's illegal too!

April 29, 2014


Typo's argh

March 5, 2014


jaroberts- quiero a mi gato, personal A, for meaning of loving him.

May 5, 2014


Maybe you could say "Yo extraño mucho a mi gato." = "I really miss my cat." Which could imply you want it.

July 6, 2014


So I learned about this in Mexico, querer only means love for people, it does not take the same meaning for animals and objects

December 5, 2018


Is there a difference between "quiero a" and just "quiero"? Examples: "Quiero a mi hijo", "Quiero un hijo" – Could the first one also be "Quiero mi hijo"?

What about "Te quiero" – can it also be "Quiero a ti"?

December 30, 2012


Yes, when su put 'a' after 'quiero' the meaning is love, in tho other case is want. 'I love my son' vs 'I want a son'. The first one needs the preposiion, in the first example 'a mi hijo' is an indirect complement of the verb, in the second, is the direct complement. a tip (but not a rule) if you can subtitude the complement with 'lo' and the sentence still works you don't need preposition 'lo quiero', if you can substitude it with 'le' is inderect complement and you need the preposition. in the 'quiero a ti' example, it doesn't work, some verbs need the indirect complement before the verb, you can say 'te quiero a ti', but you always need 'te'. Hope this helps.

December 30, 2012


You comments seem to me that you are native spanish speaker. Would you please talk about querer a or without a more deeply, as I have not quitely understand what you have written down.

May 26, 2013


Doesn't quiero also mean i want? What is wrong with "I want my sons equally"

December 28, 2012


normaly you want things, you love your family. I want my sons is not correct.

December 28, 2012


I don't mean to digress, but one could want his sons, lol.

January 17, 2013


"Is not correct" Pffft please. Never heard of custody battles?

December 14, 2013


This would probably make more sense if you have learned the phrase "Te quiero." which is a way of saying "I love you." in Spanish.

December 30, 2012


"querer" can mean either "want" or "love" and will depend on the context. And while one could certainly "want" one's children (such as in a custody battle) it does sound kind of strange when combined with "equally".

May 25, 2014


I thought that "Quiero" also translated to "I like". Would "I like my children equally" work as well?

July 24, 2013


Note to self: The word is igualmente not equalmente. (I lose so many hearts making mistakes like that.)

May 29, 2014


Jesus that doesn't sound right.

June 14, 2014


What Loki wanted Odin to say, but it never happened.

October 10, 2014


How about the word igualmente? Perhaps with a different context it could mean something like: I love my children just the same.

January 4, 2013


To me "just the same" and "equally" do not have the same meaning in English. "My children are lazy and stupid, but I love them just the same." (I still love them despite their shortcomings.) "I have three children and I love them equally." (I do not love one more than another.)

July 17, 2013


Yes, it can be, 'igualmente' also means equally.

January 4, 2013


I think when it is about a person, it has to be love. but in spanish

Amo a mis hijos igualmente Quiero a mi gato

July 28, 2013


From what I understand in Spanish you can't love something that cant love you back. How would you say "I love my cars equally"? or "I love my wife but I also love beer"

February 3, 2014


Contesta A: Me encanta mis coches igualmente or Me encanta cada uno de mis autos igualmente

Contesta B: Amo a mi esposa, pero también me encanta cerveza

Contesta Chiste: Yo amo a mi esposa tanto como amo a la cerveza

May 10, 2014


I noticed you used the "it pleases me for an item" for a car, but you could use the love or amar for another object, a beer. I thought that you can't use a form of amar for something that can't "love" back. Things can "enchant" you and people or perhaps animals etc. can "love" you. Is this line of thinking correct?

May 11, 2014


I am not sure what you mean. There is no "rule" that you cannot use any of those words to describe your feeling for someone or something any more than there is in English. There are circumstances where it would be weird, and in many cases the meaning would be figurative, but no rule that I can find or am aware of prohibiting one or the other. (Also, "like" in Spanish is Gustar)

"mi carro me encanta" = "I love my car" "me encanta a mi esposa"="I love my wife"

"amo mi coche" = "I love my car" "amo a mi esposa"="I love my wife"

"mi coche me ama "= "My car loves me" "Fiesta y cerveza: no me ama"= "Parties and beer: do not love me"

It all comes down to usage, idioms, and context. Sometimes you can say it, and other times it would get you strange looks. Who ever told you that was steering you wrong.

May 11, 2014


You can definitely use amar with things that "can't love back". I found lots of examples in Spanish literature including estudio (study), campo (countryside), arte (art), riesgo (risk), beisbol (baseball), peligro (danger), poesía (poetry), ciudad (city), libertad (freedom), ópera (opera), naturaleza (nature), vida (life), limpieza (cleanliness), ...

May 11, 2014


Thanks for that input extempore and jindroo4. It's difficult enough to get things correct that should be true without wasting time trying to memorize myths. Thanx again.

May 13, 2014


Could "igualmente" be translated as "too" or "also"

February 17, 2014


Only when you are implying equality, or "just as much"

May 10, 2014


what is wrong with "I equally love my sons"? doesn't "hijos" also mean "sons"? or does "equally" always have to stand at the end?

March 26, 2014


"hijos" can mean either "children" or "sons" I've always heard equally placed at the end of the sentence My guess is that's why it's wrong

June 1, 2014


I can see love in the list below quiero, but quiero is "WANT". Want is a correct answer, like it or not.

March 26, 2014


It is very interesting that you feel qualified to dictate definitions and usages to all the Spanish speaking peoples of the world who will disagree with you. Given time, I am sure they will listen to your forceful logic and agree.

Until then, the problem is that querer does not really mean either "want" or "love", but translates that way because of how English speakers express these ideas. The closest word in English to querer is "desire", but because that word has a vaguely sexual connotation and intensity in English, and because the use of querer in set Spanish phrases has flattened out the emotional intensity, it is rarely translated into desire in English.

This isn't a strange idea for English speakers either. If you LOVE someone's car, you are saying that (to some degree) you want it more than you have an emotional attachment with it. If you say that you WANT someone...well the same thing. Context is everything.

May 10, 2014


I thought quiero meant i want?

April 30, 2014


what's wrong with "I like my children equally"?

May 4, 2014


"querer" means "to want" or "to love" (when speaking about a person). For "to like"you need to use "gustar".

May 4, 2014



May 25, 2014


what's the problem with "i like my sons equally" ?

June 28, 2014


Suppose the two parents are in the court of law,fighting over custody of the kids.In that case,shouldn't "I want my children equally" be correct?

September 7, 2014


what is wrong by saying 'i love my children likewise?'

September 11, 2014


What about "amor?" What about, "Amo a mis hijos iqualamente?' How do you know if quiero is want or love?

October 10, 2014


Does "quiero" equally mean "to love" and "to want"?

October 29, 2014


I want my sons to do the dishes equally w/out complaining

November 11, 2014


The question isn't clear

November 27, 2014


It makes sense with the context of igualmente but as of now not with out it.

December 8, 2014


quiero is 'want' not love?

April 17, 2015


I used google translate to translate "I want my children" and the translation was "quiero mis hijos", and then I translated "I want my child" and the translation was "Quiero a mi hijo", should the first translation be "quiero a mis hijos", or does quiero not require a personal a?

May 9, 2018


Why is 'I like my sons equally' incorrect?

May 15, 2018


Shouldn't it be "Amo a mis hijos"

May 19, 2018


the help says 'love on'

May 22, 2018


I think there's a case to be made for saying: I love each of my kids equally.


June 20, 2018


Why put "a" there?

July 14, 2018
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