In the past nine months I have learned why it should be "Da"! The "Da" in this sentence would be translated into english like so Is what I need, too much to ask for?" the "Da" is used to express need, "è troppo da chiedere?" meaning Is it too much - purpose/need- to ask for? Overtime you will see pattern with other verbs, my italian abilities have grown a lot in the past 9 months and this is the best explanation I have.
Haven't been learning as long but here is my opinion on "da". Words may have different meanings after a verb or a noun. When it's after a noun (or part of) it does usually refer to purpose, (e.g. rete da pesca "net from fishing = fishing net".
Though if it's after a verb it can be a "to/from" kind of thing e.g. viene dal dottore = come from the doctor, andare dal dottore = go to the doctor. Usually da will translate well to "from".
in this example "È troppo da chiedere?", I would just translate da=to.
One blog I found in a web search basically said there are no hard-and-fast rules regarding the use of da - and probably di & a as well.
I hate to say this, but this question seems to involve idiom to a great extent, something that will only become clear(er) with time and exposure to the language - as we memorize usage(s).
Another point based on my research skill-set: Usually, if you do searches on things like "Difference between di and da in Italian" or "di vs. da in Italian", an article pops up in the search results. I got only one likely result at en.allexperts.com, but unfortunately that site has been closed. The lack of immediate results is always a very strong suggestion that there isn't an answer.
Actually, in this particular case it's modifying (aka qualifying, describing) an adverb. But it's usually an adjective.
The thing isn't just "too much", but "too much to ask". "To ask" modifies the meaning of "too much". It's like "hard to look at" doesn't mean "hard", but "ugly". "Easy to fail at" doesn't mean "easy", but "hard".
Short answer/rule of thumb
Just think of this really simple exchange:
Question "Is it?"
Answer "It is."
It's more natural (and required when being formal) to ask "Is it... ?", but "It is... ?" is perfectly understandable, as long as it is voiced as a question. When writing, I'd try to stick with the 'rule' above.
Sometimes though, when using a contraction, the it-is? order can be as acceptable and flow a little better:
"It's too much?" vs. "Is it too much?".
Note that it won't always work:
Correct: "Why is it too much?" -- "Why's it too much?"
Wrong: "Why it is too much?"
Perhaps this will assist in understanding - an article on using da in Italian
Yes, you're right. I see now that italian doesnät make this distinction either.
I think this distinction is common for Slavic languages in general. At least Polish and Russian both have different words for the concepts; and of the three, only in Russian these two words have a common stem, whereas in Polish and in Ukrainian they are completely different.
Ask: Pol. "pytać", Ukr. "питати" (pytaty), Rus. "спрашивать"(sprashyvat')
Request: Pol. "prosić", Ukr. "просити" (prosyty), Rus. "просить" (prasit')
It's also interesting that in Russian "пытать" (pytat') means now "to torture". One can guess that it got this meaning from using torture during interrogations (where people are usually asked things). That may explain why it doesn't mean "to ask" anymore.
some verbs require a particular preposition be used before nouns, phrases, infinitives and pronouns. here is a page that may help. http://www.learnitaliandaily.com/en/italian-grammar/reflexive-verbs-in-italian in this case essere is used in a passive voice and doesn't require a preposition. 'da' doesn't mean "to". it doesn't have a translatable meaning. it denotes 'necessity'. whatever the antecedent is it is necessary. here is a page that may help https://www.italian-online.de/grammar/chapter13/13_4_4_connecting_with_da.htm
Two years ago this translation was marked as being incorrect, and the error remains.
Please correct the translation into English.
Sentences beginning with "Is it" form questions. Sentences beginning with "It is" make statements.
The correct translation into English should be: "Is it too much to ask?"
The existing translation begins with "It is" which does not match with English grammar.